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"With the Women," Column by Nancy Smith, Daily Tar Heel, March 1, 1969

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Title

"With the Women," Column by Nancy Smith, Daily Tar Heel, March 1, 1969

Description

Poem "With the Women," Column by Nancy Smith, Daily Tar Heel, March 1, 1969. Performed by Aubree Dixon.

Creator

PlayMaker’s Repertory Company in collaboration with the University Archives at Louis Round Wilson Library

Date

2021

Language

English

Identifier

https://exhibits.lib.unc.edu/items/show/7585

Transcription





With the Women

Column by Nancy Smith

Daily Tar Heel

March 1, 1969





With the Women

In the beginning we were all "small,

fragile and precious." Then some of us

grew up and were called mature,

independent and capable. Others of us

grew up and we were still called small,

fragile and precious.

. . . And we had to be protected and

we had to sign out if we wanted to go

somewhere and we couldn't go anywhere

is we forgot to sign out. . .

. . . And we had to be taken care of

and over a thousand of us lost our lives

yearly at the hands of quack

abortionists. . .

. . . And we had to be provided for by

the others so we weren't allowed to have

the same jobs at the same rate of pay as

the others. . .

. . . And we were called nutrient so we

nurtured 24 hours a day in the only

industrialized nation in the world which

has no public day care system. . .

And they said we never had it so

good because we didn't have to work and most of us went on working 90 hours a

week cooking, cleaning and

babysitting. . .

And we weren't supposed to excel

or compete with others so we didn't and

our minds got stale and we learned to rely

on what was left our bodies. . .

... And if our minds weren't ours, at

least our bodies were, and then we found

out they weren't, that the others made

harsh laws about sex, contraception and

pregnancy. . .

. . . And we were called passive so we

learned to be silent. . .

. . And we were called emotional so

we took tranquilizers and spent

thousands of dollars annually on

psychiatrists and we wondered why we

were unfulfilled and inferior...

. . . And they said don't complain

because nobody has it perfect in this

society and they said it to a black man

too and he said, "Move over, baby, I’ve

got a vision."

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